yeah i kinda realized that the whole "im got get laid tonight" process rarley ever happens...and since im in the middle of the totem pole on the social hierarchy that doesn't help my situation much either. Its completly illogical with someone of her status and intelligence unless she was some sheltered immoral catholic
So I went with the logical approach of being myself. Hopefully she doesn't fall suit with the whole "nice guys finish last" stigma...thats just who I am. Im that really nice guy thats always going to be there but im not going to get any.
I really don't understand why chicks like guys that treat them like shit...well then again i can kinda see it but that whole concept really ticks me off.
And plot...were basically the same age, only by like 3 months, so don't be too offended...lol
treating a girl badly makes them want to win your approval more :/ some wierd psyc shit i read once.
Womb-Raider,Sep 26 2008, 10:10 PM Wrote:treating a girl badly makes them want to win your approval more :/ some wierd psyc shit i read once.
don't think im weird or anything but i was in a thinking mood and i think i figured out the answer or part of it...i've figured out my problems...but the hard part is implenting them correctly
basically what i found is that i as a person am too nice...and that will probably show up as being desperate, looking back on some things now...it makes sense. I'm also fairly quiet...again that gives off the idea of a lack of confidence, i have confidence and im not afraid to stand up for myself but i usually just go with the flow to avoid conflict with others...its just troublesome. Basically its all about keeping things interesting in a relationship.
Hell i could on and on but i can see what i need to change and keep...and i must say it feels great.
I think everyone should take the time to look inside see what they can inprove on and make themselves a better person overall...it very enlightening.
Graff,Sep 26 2008, 11:20 PM Wrote:Womb-Raider,Sep 26 2008, 10:10 PM Wrote:treating a girl badly makes them want to win your approval more :/ some wierd psyc shit i read once.
don't think im weird or anything but i was in a thinking mood and i think i figured out the answer or part of it...i've figured out my problems...but the hard part is implenting them correctly
basically what i found is that i as a person am too nice...and that will probably show up as being desperate, looking back on some things now...it makes sense. I'm also fairly quiet...again that gives off the idea of a lack of confidence, i have confidence and im not afraid to stand up for myself but i usually just go with the flow to avoid conflict with others...its just troublesome. Basically its all about keeping things interesting in a relationship.
Hell i could on and on but i can see what i need to change and keep...and i must say it feels great.
I think everyone should take the time to look inside see what they can inprove on and make themselves a better person overall...it very enlightening.
hah, it's funny... i was the exact same as you through high school. It's ok though, I finally got laid at the age of 20. :D
And yes, nice guys finish last. But i'm still a nice guy. :(
Graff,Sep 26 2008, 06:20 PM Wrote:Womb-Raider,Sep 26 2008, 10:10 PM Wrote:treating a girl badly makes them want to win your approval more :/ some wierd psyc shit i read once.
don't think im weird or anything but i was in a thinking mood and i think i figured out the answer or part of it...i've figured out my problems...but the hard part is implenting them correctly
basically what i found is that i as a person am too nice...and that will probably show up as being desperate, looking back on some things now...it makes sense. I'm also fairly quiet...again that gives off the idea of a lack of confidence, i have confidence and im not afraid to stand up for myself but i usually just go with the flow to avoid conflict with others...its just troublesome. Basically its all about keeping things interesting in a relationship.
Hell i could on and on but i can see what i need to change and keep...and i must say it feels great.
I think everyone should take the time to look inside see what they can inprove on and make themselves a better person overall...it very enlightening.
it sounds like your trying too hard.
dont try too hard.
BALL,Sep 27 2008, 09:10 PM Wrote:fuk dat bitch
that would be rape son...
and besides you gotta go through the emotional foreplay first to have a chance of as you call it "fuk dat bitch"
and yes i am trying hard at this cuz i'd rather work on perfecting these skills wasting time playing halo or whatever thinking about what could've been...its something that matters to me and will be a very useful skill when i leave for college next year and making new friends.
with that im off to the field to experiment!!!! Wish me luck
no seriously dont try too hard. you get into overanalyzing nearly every aspect of your conversations with girls, how you acted etc. just be yourself, it worked for me
Graff,Sep 28 2008, 06:48 AM Wrote:BALL,Sep 27 2008, 09:10 PM Wrote:fuk dat bitch
that would be rape son...
and besides you gotta go through the emotional foreplay first to have a chance of as you call it "fuk dat bitch"
and yes i am trying hard at this cuz i'd rather work on perfecting these skills wasting time playing halo or whatever thinking about what could've been...its something that matters to me and will be a very useful skill when i leave for college next year and making new friends.
with that im off to the field to experiment!!!! Wish me luck
actually you really dont have to go through the whole foreplay thing, sluts my friend.
Womb-Raider,Sep 28 2008, 04:49 PM Wrote:Graff,Sep 28 2008, 06:48 AM Wrote:BALL,Sep 27 2008, 09:10 PM Wrote:fuk dat bitch
that would be rape son...
and besides you gotta go through the emotional foreplay first to have a chance of as you call it "fuk dat bitch"
and yes i am trying hard at this cuz i'd rather work on perfecting these skills wasting time playing halo or whatever thinking about what could've been...its something that matters to me and will be a very useful skill when i leave for college next year and making new friends.
with that im off to the field to experiment!!!! Wish me luck
actually you really dont have to go through the whole foreplay thing, sluts my friend.
Yeah, you wanna know the secret to how I got laid the first time?
Booze.